5 Tips For Choosing Lingerie That Men Love

Want a guy's opinion on your lingerie drawer, pushup bras, Bridget Jones panties and all? We asked dating blogger Abraham Lloyd for a man's take on our undergarments and how to choose lingerie that men love. Here's his advice:

1. He Says: Keep the colors simple. Black, white, with a hint of color to accentuate curves and shape is hot, elegant, and feeds the mood. Bright or skin-toned colors, are not. We want to see what you're wearing and follow the curves of your body with our eyes. Anything that distracts from this is, well, less than ideal.



We Say: We were skeptical of this skin-toned undie ban…until we pictured our man in beige boxer briefs. Oh. Got it. When in doubt, basic black will always look chic and sexy without trying too hard. 4 Sexy Eco-Friendly Lingerie Picks

2. He Says: Make sure it fits well, and don't force sizes. It's important that you feel great in your outfit, and it's hard to do that when you're adjusting straps, readjusting a thong, or scratching because your outfit itches. Pulling, picking, and scratching are things we notice from a block away.



We Say: Remember 2001, when we were all wearing thongs despite the nagging feeling that our asses could do waaaay better? Well, they can. Just like fashion trends are not all created equal (hellooo skinny jeans), not every lingerie style will flatter your fab figure, and if it feels uncomfortable, it'll look uncomfortable, too. We learned our lesson the last time we forced a lacy, flimsy bra over our DDs and were ready to burn the damn thing mid-date.



3. He Says: Keep it simple…or complicate it with a plan. Attempting to take off complicated garments that we may not know how to remove can kill a mood quicker than asking "How do I take this off?" Don't assume that we know how to unbuckle, unsnap, untie, or unzip in the right order to get you naked. Instead, keep it simple, or keep it complicated and take it off yourself (watching a women undress after foreplay is amazing).



We Say: It's not just his mood that gets killed when we have to watch him fumble and tug at all our bells and whistles. Waiting for him to untie some crazy bra-corset concoction for a half-hour doesn't count as foreplay. Give it a test drive in the fitting room to make sure you can lend a helping hand if need be. Lingerie Men Love

  

  

  

  

  

Marcy Ito from Hips and Curves Gives Us Advice On Shapewear

Since I get a lot of mail from plus women wondering why shapewear could be a good buy, I wanted to ask an expert what makes this lingerie so important for our wardrobes, and for our self-esteem. After checking out Hips and Curves, I had the opportunity to get some lingerie tips from representative Marcy Ito.


Q: How has shapewear changed over the years?



A: The shapewear of today is more versatile, comfortable and stylish. With all of the innovations in fabrics and manufacturing techniques, shapewear has become much more than a supportive undergarment. Shapewear gives you a sleek, sexy figure, smoothes out those lumps and bumps, eliminates panty lines and gives your derriere (and your confidence!) an extra boost.



Q: Shapewear can be considered an investment when we're facing budget restrictions. Why is shapewear a justifiable purchase for any season?



A: In a time when it’s possible to spend a fortune on "body-sculpting" plastic surgery, shapewear offers an affordable, fun and safe way to smooth and shape curves with less risk and less expense. Why go under the knife and into debt when shapewear offers an inexpensive way to look your best under your favorite outfit? With the right shapewear you can wear that perfectly divine form-fitting dress, clingy top or sleek skirt with confidence.



Q: How would you recommend wearing shapewear for evenings?



A: Everyone needs a LBD (little black dress) in their wardrobe, so [you can always] try a light control slip with high heels and a strand of pearls. Some shapewear is actually substantial and stylish enough to be worn on its own. You will look sophisticated and feel completely supported.



[If you] need to update your look for a night on the town, [you can] enhance your silhouette and emphasize your waist by layering a sexy waist nipper over a white button up shirt or a billowy jersey dress. Although most people wear shapewear under their clothes, if you are creative, it can be just as sexy on the outside as it is underneath.



Q: Some people feel that shapewear can't be sexy. As a representative from a lingerie company, can you tell us which pieces you think are the best?



A: Nothing screams "sex appeal" like a garter belt and stockings. Try a waist cincher or garter belt with your favorite bra. Smooth shaping garter belts and waist nipping cinchers with garters are perfect if you want the seductive powers of a garter belt with the support of shapewear. When you want more than a wispy piece of lace, a garter belt or cincher made with Powernet and Lycra gives you the support you need without sacrificing sex appeal.



Q: Do have any other suggestions for shapewear-based looks?



A: [Well], the bodysuit is back on the runways and ready to make its way back into your wardrobe! Try a lacy body briefer or floral body briefer with slacks or a high waisted pencil skirt for something sexy and sophisticated.


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Marcy Ito from Hips and Curves Gives Us Advice On Shapewear

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Don’t be afraid to own you femininity. Parisians don’t only wear lingerie as an foreplay for sex

I remember walking the streets of Paris with my mother as a child and seeing partial or full nudity in billboards. I was shocked that no one seemed to bat an eye. The country embraces nudity like they take their caffè’ au lait. Unlike the trashy peepshow nudity of the LiLo’s and Britney’s of the world flashing their underwear-less hoo-has everywhere, lingerie is a confident second skin in France. Have a sexy little secret underneath your clothes. It will make you stand taller, feel slimmer, and help you channel your inner belle de jour.





   

Lingerie Tips For Women

 

Most women are quite knowledgeable and aware of what types of clothing suit their body types, and match their personalities. When it comes to creating the perfect outfits, matching tops and bottoms, shoes and handbags, most women are in their element. But often when it comes to lingerie and other intimate clothing items many women are more than a little baffled. Lingerie selections are an important and often overlooked part of any ladies personal style. It can either flatter your body and complete a look, or it can look off, out of place and out of style. Remember that good quality and attractive lingerie can be one of the best ways to flaunt your sexy figure. Here are a few tips that can help you to choose the best lingerie for you. Breasts, Shoulders and Arms

Firstly you need to take into consideration the size of your breasts. The bust line gets a lot of attention on any woman and it needs to be properly accentuated. If you have smaller breasts you may want to consider a padded brassier or one that contains under wire for extra support. Likewise if you have large breasts you will want to avoid padded bras and go for a look that is more subtle such as lace etc.

For your arms and shoulders choose sleeve lengths and styles that are slimming and avoid anything too tight or restricting.

Thighs and Legs

If you are petite in size, choose designs that help you to create the illusion of fuller and longer legs. High cut styles help you to do this. Thongs are also extremely sexy, and can be worn by nearly any body type. They also make the leg look longer and slimmer.

For those who carry a little extra weight around the thighs or bottom, you may want to try a nightie or gown that flows loosely around the upper thigh. Try to avoid styles that are very tight around the butt or thighs. Keep the focus on your upper body by using a corset or bustier to emphasize and enhance your breasts.

Stomach, Hips and Waist
Dark colours are generally always considered slimming so go for these of you have a slightly bulging or larger tummy. Sheer garments tend to reveal every detail so choose fabrics that are more opaque to keep your tummy looking slim and contained. Again try to draw the attention away from your trouble spots by emphasizing the neck line and shoulders of your outfit.

If you feel you have a figure that it too slim try using two piece lingerie sets. These help to create the illusion of a curvy hourglass figure.

Hair
A woman’s hair is her crowning glory. Make sure your outfit matches well with your hair colour and does not clash. Arrange your hair in a way that flatters your face and figure.

Accessories and props
Anything with a girly and luxurious feel is fair play when it comes to accessories and props. Silk, lace, ribbons, patterns, jewellery, these can all help to complete your outfit and make you feel sexy and confident.

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3 Ways to put an end to bedroom boredom

Feeling bored in the bedroom? One of the easiest romance ruts to fall into is sex on a schedule. A standardized sex life can get old – fast. Use our tips and relationship advice to boost spontaneity in the bedroom.


Play dress up


1 Make use of that drawer full of lacy lingerie you never wear. If you've got it, we say flaunt it. Wearing something sexy that you wouldn't normally wear will make you feel bolder in the bedroom. And your new choice of wardrobe will make him sit up and take notice – a perfect combination for unplanned passion.

When you're picking out something sexy to wear, make sure it's something that you feel comfortable in – not just something you think he's going to like. Yes, you definitely want to make your man stand up and take notice, but if you don’t feel good in what you have on, how are you going to feel like getting frisky?

2 Catch him off guard



Whether it's sex every Friday night or a quickie after your weekly trip to the grocery store on Sunday afternoons, ditch the routine for unscheduled sexy time. Just the fact that you're initiating a random romp will inject sex with a new energy. Aim to go beyond the usual routine at least a couple of times every month.

The best time to initiate off-schedule sex is when you know you're both feeling fairly relaxed. This means not while he's running late and looking for his car keys or when you're both super-stressed at the end of a long day. Timing is everything when it comes to sex and starting something steamy when you're both likely to be in the mood.


3Try something new



One of the best ways to add some spontaneity to your sex life is to introduce something new. Whether it's a sex position you've been curious about or a sex toy that can benefit both of you, surprise your partner with a sexy suggestion and see where the night takes you!

Be open with each other about your sex life and what you think might be lacking. Discuss what types of things you both want to try as a way to make sex more fun and interesting. That way you're both on the same page about what goes on in the bedroom versus one person being unsatisfied while the other thinks everything is fine. The only way sex will improve is if you're willing to talk about it.


    

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Sexy Lingerie for Older Women

By SJ StratfordIt wasn't so long ago that the idea of sexy lingerie for older women was treated as a joke or, at best, a fetish. However, American women are finally taking a cue from their French sisters and asserting the right to be sexy at any age - and people are noticing!





Why Sexy Lingerie for Older Women?
The idea of a woman being sexy after marriage and children is one that still rankles with a lot of people, including women. It's as though sexual appeal is just for young, unmarried women and once a woman is over a certain age, she is wisest to stop thinking of herself as sexy, because no one else will.




The European idea is very different - they see women as becoming more sexually appealing as they age, because she gains in knowledge and experience. Sexy lingerie for older women has been big business in Europe for years, although there is no differential between the bras and bustiers and garters worn by younger or older women. Good lingerie is simply good lingerie.



Women's bodies have also changed. More exercise and healthy living means that getting older doesn't mean losing strength and tone. And men who used to think a woman over fifty couldn't possibly be sexy may have seen Helen Mirren and changed their minds. Women can be sexy for many decades, so why not have the underwear to enhance it?



Choices in Lingerie for Mature Women
One of the benefits of being older is that you usually have a little more money to spend and know how to spend it wisely. A woman who has lived a bit and perhaps done some breastfeeding knows how important it is to have a bra that fits well and offers maximum support. Women of any age, especially if they are quite curvy, can have difficulty finding a bra that is supportive and sexy.


This is an instance where spending more money will definitely yield you a better quality bra that will last. La Perla, Freya, Bahia and Tulipe all make great bras that don't compromise on support or allure. The Italian designer Cosabella has recently put out a Sex and the City line of lingerie, with styles to appeal to your inner Carrie, Miranda, Charlotte or Samantha. Speaking of Samantha, there is a great example of a woman who knows all about how great sexy lingerie for older women can look - and the powerful effect it can have on men of all ages.




Also, one of Samantha's favorite haunts was Agent Provacateur, whose site might put off some women at first, but is worth browsing because they carry very high-quality sexy items. And if it met Samantha's high standards, it stands to reason it will work for you.

Beyond Bras and Panties


Older women may have some sensitivity about their midsections and thighs, especially if they've had more than one child - not everyone can get back in shape like Annette Bening. But there are many options in sexy lingerie that can hide perceived imperfections and enhance assets. Chemises and teddies are great for masking the belly and playing the tease. Corsets and bustiers do wonders for shaping the waist and pushing up the breasts. Instead of an uncomfortable thong, wear them with boy shorts or tap pants and stockings.



Accessories are a great way to play up sexiness and further hide anything that may trouble you. A ribbon around the neck is always appealing, as are opera gloves. And don't forget shoes! A good pair of heels never fails to capture attention.



Finally, remember that sexiness is always in the attitude. A strong, confident woman who knows what she wants will have men of all ages lying at her feet.


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Sexy lingeries are the flavor of sex

Sexy lingeries do not only have the same function as the fashionable dresses, which are used for showing attitudes to fashion, but also have hints about sex. Nothing dressed on women, can compare with the sexy lingeries, which highly stand for the sparkling and charming beauty of women.

When fatigue period comes to one couple, sexy lingeries may be the lubricant of their marriage and increase their love between each other. Various kinds of sexy lingeries of different colors may create images of women. Men may imagine about their wives’s bodies, emotions, images while seeing wives with those sexy lingeries. Their love may be kept fresh and exciting by those special lingeries.


Recently, one marketing report about women’s underwear market showed that black underwears with lace and black pantyhose with lace can attract men’s attention easily. That’s why they are the hottest items online or in the shopping stores or malls. In this report, 92 percent of men mentioned that sexy lingeries provide more provocative attraction than other dresses. Interestingly, 73 percent of those men indicated that their permanent relationship with their girl friends, lovers and wives should owe to the contribution of sexy lingeries. What’s more, some men even mentioned that when a man asked his partner to wear a sexy lingerie, the man was actually asking for a marital relation with his partner.

Women’s beauty and youth are recorded by the exquisite design of lace, awesome line of those sexy lingeries. The fashionable designs and dazzling colors of those sexy lingeries may boost women’s sex appeal and their personalities.

Sexy lingeries are another expression of women’s emotion and mood. They are mysterious, crazy, impassioned and charismatic. The process of changing the color of her underwear is a process to release her real heart. Women who purchase sexy lingerie must cherich themselves very much. During the process of selecting, purchasing and wearing, women are full expectation, love or even some kind of narcissism about themselves, because those sexy lingeries are only shown to their most intimate men and themselves.



Nothing in the world is immutable, so are the men. If women want to keep their relationship with their men permanently, maybe it is better for them to be armed with lastest information of the society and the development, meanwhile, they should wear lastest dresses and underwears and change them at times. Those women may be new and fascinating to their men every day with the different sexy lingeries.


Sexy lingeries are the flavor of sex. If love between men and women can be increased with the use of sexy lingeries, why not purchase one to have a try?


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Very attractive bustier that fits well. Didn't "maximize my cleavage" as much as some of my bras, but the lace and mesh add that sexy note. Would have given it five stars except it smelled pretty bad upon opening the package. But nothing a good handwash and spritz of perfume won't cure!






  
  
  



I have got the black version of this set and I love the way it makes me feel very sexy indeed.


The bustier consists of all over black lace with ribbon laced up the front and ruffles on the cups and around the hips. It is boned, which adds support but isn't restrictive and does up at the back with lots of hooks and eyes. You can choose out of 3 different levels of tightness as well as pulling in the ribbon lacing to make it tighter. There are detachable suspender straps which have an impressive adjustability range


I'm a size 8 and 32b bust so I went for the small size and found it to be a perfect fit on the tightest fastening and without adjusting the ribbon lacing down the front. The cup size was perfect for me too. I believe it would comfortably fit a size 6-10 but the cup size would probably be a bit too tight for anyone with more of a bust. There is room in the cups if needed but the trim along the top of the cups has no give so might cut in. When the bustier came the suspender straps came down to my knees but on the smallest length they would be perfect for me (about mid thigh).

The material looks slightly cheap but is actually quite soft. I always think of lace as being starched and scratchy which this wasn't. I was very surprised about how comfortable it was to wear. It's well made too - I don't feel it'll pull apart at the seams rolling around in it.
The only downside with this set is the thong. It's very cheap and not well made at all. It was also way too big for me and gave me a baggy under-carriage! But it is a small part of the set and I think anyone buying the set would be buying for the bustier. It would also be very easy to buy a separate thong to match in.

Going back to the start of the review - I put this on as a surprise for my OH and when he walked in the room I can honestly say he struggled for words (and balance!). That made me feel amazingly sexy indeed